Useful tips

Should I tell my boyfriend about scars?

by John A.

Should I tell my boyfriend about scars?

Sharing your scars is the same thing as sharing a special part of you. If you love him enough to make love with him, you should love him enough to tell him the truth about your scars. I think that the best time for you to tell him is when you feel completely certain that you love him.

How do you tell your partner you have self harmed?

Tips to help you tell someone about self-harm

  1. find someone you can trust – such as a close friend, family member, trained volunteer, health or other professionals.
  2. decide on the right time or place to talk to someone – it may feel easier to write something down, talk online or call and practise what you want to say first.

Is self-harm a red flag in a relationship?

Yes. It is one of those red banners you can not miss. Self-harming is an expression of tremendous pain and rage turned inwards. Often it is so intence, one has to be emotionally ready to deal with this type of behavior in their partner.

How do I comfort my girlfriend?

Tips

  1. Do not storm out.
  2. Once she has calmed down, run the tub for her and run out to get some chocolates or something small.
  3. If you cannot help her, suggest she talk to a friend.
  4. Give good romantic pick up lines and kiss her.
  5. Compose a romantic tune to make her smile.
  6. Try holding her hand to comfort her.

How do you know your boyfriend is toxic?

If a relationship stops bringing joy, and instead consistently makes you feel sad, angry, anxious or “resigned, like you’ve sold out,” it may be toxic, Glass says. You may also find yourself envious of happy couples. Fuller says negative shifts in your mental health, personality or self-esteem are all red flags, too.

What to say to a girl when she’s feeling down?

What to Say to Someone Who Is Depressed

  • Tell Them You Care.
  • Remind Them You’re There for Them.
  • Ask How You Can Help.
  • Urge Them to Talk With a Doctor.
  • Ask Them If They Want to Talk.
  • Remind Them That They Matter.
  • Tell Them You Understand (If You Really Do)
  • Remind Them It’s OK to Feel The Way They Feel.